My brother lost his son to a car accident when John was just 19 .They were very close; more lik friends than father and son, working together in the construction company my brother built from scratch in the beautiful backwoods of Maine. My older brother had built the shell of a second home for John to live in with his fiance when they were married. It was extemely difficult for him to let his son go.

Many years passed. the huge,beautiful shell of a home, with a sunburst on its front, was never completed. The shell stood empty; no kitchen, bathroom, bedrooms were ever completed. Only the basement area was used for a storage shed for my brother’s many construction vehicles.

I went to visit my brother in his home with the intention of hleping him clear the energy. The air in the building was as thick as molasses; it was hard to move through it. I went in with sage to burn, as the native people used to use to clear energy; I had an abalone shell to catch the ashes, as one must always use a natural object to catch the ashes in.

I went into each corner, each window, telling the spirit to go to the light, saying prayers as I crossed each threshold. My brother and my then-husband started noticing that the air was clearing, the heaviness was going. Then John’s vocie, very clearly said ,” I love you, dad,” and he was gone(to the light).  Perhaps at least part of his spirit had been  earthbound because he was so much missed and needed on this side.

I have cleared a house for a real-estate agent because the energy was so bad that it could not be sold.

As most mothers understand, it is possible to communicate with the unborn child.  This does not have to stop even if the child passes on. It is possible to communicate with a child not yet conceived, or a child which has passed. There are always reasons why a spirit may not be ready to enter into incarnation at this time. A woman who has suffered a miscarriage may need help in communicating with the child, which may have reasons for being afraid to come in. In my work with couples who have either been infertile or have lost one or more children to miscarriage or early death, several things have become clear.

If a child is afraid to come in, it may have suffered a tramuatic or violent death at a young age in a previous life. In such cases a child needs reassurance that the parents will love and nurture and protect it.

If a couple is having difficulty conceiving, it may be that the child who is meant to come for them is not yet avuialble;it may still be incarnated in another body at this time. It is  possible in such a case to give a pretty goood estimate of when that child is going to come.

A child  which has passed through abortion or through miscarriage retains a connection to the mother for a long time, even decades. it does not feel anger. It may wish to return at some later time. There is certainly no question of guilt or wrongdoing on the mother’s part….death is an illusion. The spirit cannot be killed. It will return when the time is right if allowed to.

If a child dies, leaving unfinished business, it will return to its own family if possible. Onepossible route is returning to its own sister as her baby. Even a much older person can return to a family-as her own great-grand-daughter, for example.

You always get exactly the child who are meant to get. There are almost always past-life rreasons why a particular child may come to you. Even in situations in which a mother has a terrible relationship wih a son, for example, there is a question of unfinished business, a debt to be paid. No judgement around that-we are on this plane to learn. We choose our life lessons, who we will meet, our parents, our life tasks, on the other side. I have been blessed to help a spirit on the other side help plan a future life with a family member on this side.